We’re all friendly creatures in our bones. That’s why it’s important to be part of community. Since my childhood I never fitted in any boxes. For artists I was focusing on business too much, for marketers I was making silly jokes too much, for fashionistas I wear colors too much, for punkers I was blond too much, for writers I wasn't struggling too much and I can go on and on. I just never fitted anywhere. These last days I just realised maybe it's better to be 100% true to yourself. And guess what - you can't please everyone, so what about to try to be real you again?
Put yourself on the first place
People will always judge and gossip others. That's why is scary to be honest every time. But if you think about it - if you say something about someone after few minutes you will forgot about it. Why? Basically because everyone care about themself not about you. One day I went with the tram and one random girl was driving me super nuts. She was cutting her nails, it made loud voice of cutting and I was like ughh I'll kill her for sure. But then I just realized that’s it! She didn’t give a fuck about what others think and she was just completely happy and confident with herself.
Find the original you
We all should stop for a moment and ask selfs: what am I standing for? What is it true me? Do I really like celery juice, or is it just pose? Am I going to gym, because I like it, or just because others going there? Everyone has different values, but it should be yours values not the person who is sitting next to you. Then it'll be also easier for you to don't care what others think about it.
Don't wait for approval
If someone judge you, it's not about you, it's about them. They're just not confident and feeling insecure. You stand for your values. You will not change for someone else. You're unique. Also you're an adult. You don't need any approval anymore.
Be yourself. Stand for your ideas. Be the main character in your own story again.
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